Stacie Mallinson, Death Coach

End of life consultation and CULTIVATION OF joyful life in the moment

SPECIALIZING IN support for patients pursuing Medical aid in Dying

Phone: 425-501-1091 (text or call)

Email: taosurfers@gmail.com

No matter how old or healthy you are, we all must face our own mortality at some point or another. Stacie’s passion is to come alongside people of all ages to help them to overcome any fear of death before they don’t have a choice but to confront their fear. For instance, she works with young people to help them establish advanced directives and other preparations for a life with peace of mind. She also works with those who are elderly or terminally ill through the challenges of the dying process, in cooperation with their caregiving team, according to the needs and preferences of each individual client.

MENU OF SERVICES

Every fee below reflects skilled labor, including preparation, travel, and on-call time outside a visit. A sliding scale is offered throughout — no one should be turned away for lack of funds; please ask.

GETTING STARTED

Free Discovery Call

A 20–30 minute phone or video call to talk about your situation, answer questions, and see if we're a good fit. No obligation.

No charge

CONSULTATIONS & VISITS  ·  HOURLY

Planning Session / Home Visit

In-home, hospital, hospice, or virtual: advance care planning, life review, legacy work, family meetings. Sliding scale, self-identified. 2-hr minimum beyond 20 miles.

$60 – $125 / hr

PLANNING PACKAGES  ·  FLAT FEE

Advance Care & Legacy Planning Package

4–6 sessions covering advance directives, values clarification, legacy projects, and a written vigil / after-death plan. Ideal before active decline begins.

$600 – $900

Full-Spectrum Companion Package

Ongoing support from enrollment through the active dying phase: regular visits, family coordination, vigil planning, and priority on-call status. Vigil days billed separately (see below).

$2,200 – $3,500

ACTIVE VIGIL & BEDSIDE ACCOMPANIMENT

Vigil Day Rate (up to 8 hrs)

Continuous bedside presence during the active dying phase: comfort measures, family respite, ritual and space-holding, guidance through the dying process.

$275 – $350 / day

Overnight Vigil (8 – 12 hrs)

Overnight on-call or in-person presence so family can rest.

$375 – $450 / night

Vigil Package (up to 5 days, sliding scale)

A pre-purchased block of vigil days at a discounted bundled rate — additional days billed at the standard day rate above.

$1,400 – $2,000

AFTER-DEATH & GRIEF SUPPORT

Grief Check-In

One-on-one follow-up support in the weeks and months after a death, individually or as a bundled 3-session package.

$75 / hr  ·  3-for-$180

ADDITIONAL Services available

• Specialized support for clients seeking medical aid in dying (MAID) who find support in their religious communities hard to find with the optional additional assistance of Dr. Jeffrey Mallinson, scholar of the history and philosophy of religion

• Creation of a legacy project, which may include a website, audio legacy file, and edited video

• Workshops and speaking events for groups on facing death

• Yin yoga sessions or retreats for those facing terminal illness

• Non-sectarian memorial service officiation or service planning for others to conduct

  More About Stacie

  Stacie has a love for people and a desire to help them live well now and every day. She helps them develop strategies for letting go of past regrets and relieving worries about the future. Stacie is committed to providing a safe space for all without imposing any of her views on clients, regardless of their religious affiliation (or lack thereof), race, gender, military background, sexual orientation, or views about the afterlife. She is committed to supporting patients who are thoughtfully considering medical aid in dying. Her work is about listening and helping clients embrace their own agency.

  Stacie believes that everybody deserves to be free, to be respected and to make decisions for their own lives.